12 Days of Natsmas: PLAN (1)

HAPPY 2 YEARS TO NATSCHATS ON WORDPRESS!!!

Hello my lovelies, and Welcome to the first day of Natsmas!!!

That’s right, I didn’t think I could hack the full 24 days of blogmas however, 12 days seems much more manageable and I even get to throw in a play on words.

So day one of Natsmas as you can see by the above title is a plan, I thought this would be a good idea so that everyone reading would be able to get excited with me about all the lovely stuff we have coming up!

If you have any further suggestion, I am open to all ideas as I do have a bit of room to move stuff around, but, for now, here is the line up for the next 11 days UNTIL XMAS!!!

2) Fave Baubles and Decorations

3) Surviving Awkward Christmas moments

4) Xmas Presents

5) Christmas Outfits (Formal and (Party)

6) Top Christmas Movies

7) Fave Christmas Food

8) Christmas Cocktails/Mocktails

9) Day in the life

10) Get ready with me: Winter Edition

11) Christmas Baking Recipe

12) Top Christmas songs 2017 (Case study ratings by a series of people from different age groups)

Phew! That’s alotta work to do, I better get cracking. The twelfth day Christmas song challenge has already taken up a lot of time and I am very excited to see the results myself, if you would like to be part of it please do let me know and I will sent you the list! There will be a few videos over on YouTube to go along with some of these Blog Posts if you fancy giving them a watch, so keep an eye out.

Also, I would just like to say sorry about the lack of Instagram posts but that is because I have had to delete Instagram for a little while, I should have it back after Natsmas tho so it will be back again for 2018!

How crazy is it that there’s less than a month left of 2017, it feels like only a few weeks ago I was welcoming it and now its over. I am scared, but also very happy to see what the new year bring as I can guarantee it will be one of the most eventful years of my young life. I will keep you updated every step of the way though!

See you tomorrow,

Xx

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Get Over It: Short story/Advice article

I know, im updating the old blog AGAIN! What has gotten into me?

Anyway I wrote a short story/advice article thingy which I though you may wish to read, I dedicate it to anyone going through heartbreak. I hope you enjoy it as I certainly do, it apparently should take you 3 WHOLE MINS to read so don’t worry about taking up too much time out of your very busy lives. Enjoy and see you soon, Xx

 

Confusion. That’s the primary source of emotion. Why? Just, why? You thought things were going so well, clearly you were wrong. It doesn’t matter how they did it. It just hurts that they did. No matter what the inspirational quotes and magazines tell you, at this moment, you do need them. Whether it’s been one date or 143, if you’re divorced, newly single or have always technically been single but wishing for more. It hurts.

Of course like any big grievance you go through the famous 5 stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. Everyone becomes a love guru telling you this, but they always seem to miss out the most important question that any person who’s in pain wants to know. How long? Obviously you know from any lecture, that nothing lasts forever. But, forever is a very long time and I’d kind of like this torture to end sooner rather than later.

My story is no different. We were on our 14th date, 36th if you count the chilled days at each other’s houses (I did). We were coming to the abrupt end of a coffee break together in our lunch break. The he told me. Another girl was it? Longing to be single? Moving away? Nope. None of those Rom com excuses. Lesson one anyone learns with love is that it isn’t like the movies, obviously, that’s why this is a book. One day or another, they will dump you. Doesn’t matter if it’s a he or a she or just an it, everything ends. No use in dwelling on it though because it won’t happen just once. Even those who marry their first love are lying to themselves. That was not their first love because love comes in all forms and positions. When you’re just a baby you love your parents, for some of you fortunate few, you still do, somewhere under that shield of adulthood and independence.

Since then it’s been the latest boyband member, the one with the cheeky smile was always my fave. Or maybe you were more of a mysterious cast member type, the one in a popular TV show or soap opera where he wasn’t a bad boy, just misunderstood. They both come to an end, either through finding their own love interest or you simply came to your senses and realised their whole life that you saw, was just an act. At least you did grow out of it; some people are forever fantasizing about being the one who gets chosen out of a crowd of millions.

And then there’s the school crushes, wow, they never get old do they. If you don’t like anyone, you’re lying to yourself. There’s always that one boy that catches your eye and then makes your mouth drop (and maybe even your pants if you’re lucky enough to have a reciprocated crush – never happens). And that brings the cycle all the way back to the current situation, a break up. Hurts, yeah?

But don’t you see, you’ve loved before, and thus, you will love again. You may even be broken up with again, or maybe this time, you’ll be the one to do the dumping. Either way, everyone goes through it, heartbreak is tough but, it’s the only way to know you’ve truly loved. Knowing that you once have loved is better than never loving, so, in your own time, under your own circumstances, you will…

Get Over It.

Blogmas Day 7: Get to know me (Christmas edition)

Jesus Blogmas is going past quickly! (Excuse the pun) and today I thought I’d do a little getting to know me questions and answers. But of course as Christmas is upon us this will be Christmas themed/related. Please do feel free to copy this idea for you own blogs and comment so I can check your ones out! So here it goes (don’t judge me too harshly):

1. What colour is your tree decorated this year (if you have one which you should as this is a Christmas quiz)?

This year I decided to decorate my tree with garlands of little gold balls and red ornaments, I will upload a picture below for those interested:
2. What is your favourite Christmas Drink?

Now this is a tricky one as I have quite a few. I love a hot chocolate but tbh I drink them all year round anyway so it’s not very Christmassy. If I’m ill then I’ll fix myself a hot honey and lemon but my ultimate Christmassy drink would probably have to be a good mulled cider (or wine if I’m feeling extra fancy). This drinks great cause it warms you up and tastes literally like Christmas in a cup (and has a cheeky added extra of being a bit boozy)!

3. What meal do you typically have on Christmas Day?

Normally I have a typical Turkey Roast Dinner with all the trimming and my family has Christmas Pudding for dessert (I don’t actually like it so I have a bit of Yule log). This year though we’re mixing it up my having a normal everyday meal on Christmas Day and having my Christmas dinner on Boxing Day when I’m with the rest of my family

4. Who do you normally spend Christmas with?

Pretty much every Christmas for me is spent with My mum, Dad, 2 brothers, brothers fiancé, Aunty and Uncle, Nan, 2 cousins and cousins girlfriend. Yeah I know crazy right? What’s even crazier is often most of them all sleep at my parents house. That’s up to 12 of us under one roof! It’s so fun and never has a dull moment which is why Christmas is gonna be weird this year. This year I’m spending Christmas Day with my parents, brother and nan and seeing my cousins and girlfriend and other brother and his fiancé. Then I’ll be going to my aunty and uncles house in Devon on the 28th. It’s gon be busy!!!

And there you have it! 4 quick Christmas questions to let you know a little more about me, feel free to answer them in the comments And of course Happy Blogmas
Xx